I was going to start this post with describing archetype of Apocalypse, to talk a bit about Jung, Ragnarok and Four Horsemen, but realized that we all had a lot of deep and depressive news this days, time to find some positive things in Corona. Pestilence, War, Famine and Death can wait :)... Anyway, fact is fact: something is going on in this world. It scares most of people and make doubt even those who laugh at the fuzz. It’s definitely special and strange time. The most impressive in this situation is how small, invisible creature put on knees those who supposed to think about themselves as “Kings of nature”. Immaterial, weightless virus reminded the whole population of the Earth: “Behave, guys. You are not the boss here.”
Such types of crises always inspired me: because in situations like this people show their real faces. When panic is coming, all social masks falls. Our behavior at this moment shows our true nature: Do we care about own safety only? Are we ready to take care of others? What do we do to prevent the disease? When we feel first symptoms of the virus, how do we act: we take on face mask not to spread Corona
or we reason that there’s no point if I’m already seek? Do we go to hospital to make tests or we stay away so we are not sent in quarantine if the result is positive? We give a shit because nobody in our family in a group of risk or we feel the responsibility of strangers lives too?
This is a perfect time to find out answers to all these questions and to make some conclusions about others and self-reflection about yourselves. Suddenly we have a lot of free time now, and how we will spend it is completely our own choice. Will we be killed by boredom and get bogged down in Netflix, facebook, Pornhub
, or will we use this time to fix those things we were going to fix long time ago, but never managed to schedule? Should we maybe analyze the situation and find out what we all did to make it happen? What will we do if things get worse? Were we ready for something like this or not? Can we make some lessons out of it for the future?
For escort-girls this crisis has some specific features. First, it guarantees decline of income. For those girls, who don’t have any savings this is a serious financial crisis. I feel really sorry for young ladies who took a loan for their first tour and stuck with no money and no work in foreign countries. I understand them completely when I see they are trying to continue working despite the risk of being infected or to infect others. I suppose all those who provides human-to-human services are in the main risk group as distributors of the virus. But if manicurist, masseur or hairdresser will be provided by the government with financial supply, escorts will not.
So it’s very understandable why girls go for risk and fight with panic until the end. But I take this situation as a kind of sign for changes. For example, that we, escorts, should start to cognize online part of the industry for such critical situations. I’m talking about skype
subscriptions etc. Of course, in the beginning it will be uncomfortable and low in demand, but to change habits is always difficult in the beginning. We should try – it can prevent some of us from a disaster. Guys, girls need your support in that. If each client will make just one test online-appointment with his favorite escort or subscribe her onlyfans account during this period – it can save a lot of girls from financial crisis in this difficult time. And who knows… Maybe you will like it! Sexy video-chats is not an innovation, but most of individual girls don't want to go fishing on jasmin
or other intermediary sites: we prefer to keep everything under our own control. We don’t want to deal with agents, and if you don’t want to support human traffic and others who like to make money out of girls, please, text direct to the lady and ask for her private video-contact. This is the solution for now, at least temporary.
I had own experience of webchats. When I was a student I made my pocket money in such web-studios, that took the lion's share of income, but at that time it was impossible to fix the process by yourself so I had to deal. I still remember that paranoia “What if someone recording me? What if some how they will find me? What if they send screenshots all around?
” Because while working in such studios you can’t choose a person to chat with, the only thing you can do is to block particular country, that is useless today because of VPN
. Actually a year later after I stopped doing webchats one of my regular “viewers” found me on Facebook
. And he sent me screenshots of our video-sessions, but they were so cute, that I wasn’t angry. I was not brave enough to do any candid or provocative shows, that probably kept me out of blackmailers. Today I don’t have those teenage fears to be recognized, but anyway there’s some setting in my mind that I have to work with. I realize as well that today as for personal meetings as for video-shows I will go only with those whom I trust and in whom I’m sure… So, ladies and gentlemen, let’s try ourselves in online world, but please, do it safe: protect your data, meet those whom you trust and hide your face if you’re afraid to be recorded.
I will share my experience with you as soon as I domesticate the field. Take care of yourself and others during this period and try to get advantage out of the situation. Hug you!
I’m staying in Cannes this days. Yesterday I found out that I had forgotten to turn off advertisement in Oslo by mistake. But today I’m planning to turn it on consciously already, just because of my blog. I’m not available for real appointments now and I'm fiscally not in Oslo, but we can keep in touch online.
Ladies, if you have some ideas or offers how we can go through this time, it would be nice to hear your opinion. We are stronger when we support each other. Kisses!