Of course I cannot tell you about all escorts but this list is based on my own opinion and experience of my coworkers and friends.
1. Can you send me a selfie? I must be sure it’s you on pictures. - No problems! But can you send me a deposit? I must be sure that you are not just a jerk.
2. What are your services? What are your rates? Please, show some respect: read our profiles. Everything you need to know is there. If you didn’t find ‘deep kissing’ in the list of services, it means, that we don’t provide it at all, or that we can’t promise you until we meet. So, it’s not necessary to ask it in sms. If you are looking for some special services, just find another girl, who will provide you this for sure. Choosing an escort - it’s like a lottery. And even if the girl has a long list of services and a lot of nice reviews, it’s not guaranteed that you will match each other. Take a risk!
3. Can I get a discount? Price negotiations. I realize that for some people price negotiation is absolutely normal thin: why not try? But for us it’s not acceptable. When we get questions about discounts from somebody we don’t know, probably, we’ll never meet this person. If it comes from a regular, we have some ‘struggle’ in our minds: from one hand, we have some warm feelings, respect and trust to this person; from another - we take this as a betrayal and personal insult. I can understand this point of view: maybe, you get used to shopping promotion offers like ‘buy one get two’, ‘every tenth visit - free’ etc. But sorry, we are not a shopping mall. While you think: ‘Ok, we spend nice time together, we like each other, she should give me a discount.’ an escort thinks: ‘Well, seems that we like each other, we spend nice time together, he should tip me.’ I hope you understand it.
4. How many clients do you have daily? Have you already met someone before me today? Common, guys! These are business secrets. Very often such questions are based on jealousy- that is very dangerous. You should (you must) realize that we are escorts. We are professionals. Yes, we meet with other men: this is what escorts do. Of course, we always do our best to make it look like there is no one else, but this is the fact. If you wanna be the only one, you should be able to provide it. Every girl has her own conditions for this: someone will ask you to rent her an apartment and to pay for her study, another will ask 10 000 eu per month, somebody else will accept marriage proposal only... Individually. If you really want this, you should discuss it with the girl. But if you are not ready to fulfill her needs, never ask her about other clients.
5. Private questions: Do you have a husband/boyfriend? What’s your real name? Do your friends or family know about your business? Of course, through some time we can get closer, we can even become some type of friends or lovers. But never ask it in the beginning. Keep the privacy until we start trusting each other. And I strongly recommend you: don’t discuss your private life with girls you barely know. Read my post about blackmailing first.
6. Can we drink a coffee or have a dinner together? Of course, we can! But our rates will be the same. Maybe, you think ‘Hey, I will pay for the food, and you will do nothing!’ For us it’s not so. We can afford ourselves coffee, food, journey to Spain or whatever. You should understand: we sell our time. And how do you want to spend it - is up to you. Now there may be objections: you will go for dinner anyway, why not with me? Simply: when we go for dinner by ourselves, it’s relaxation. When we go with you, it’s a job. There are many nuances: starting with appearance and speaking, ending with a choice of dishes.